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Teen Sexual Concerns - A Resource for Parent's

 By Stephen C. Schultz


Over the past few years, I have regularly received calls from clinicians, attorneys, and educational consultants about clients and students of theirs who are struggling with sexual concerns.


These concerns often involve the excessive use of technology to access pornography. There is also the phenomenon of “sexting,” which raises concerns. Some students may be struggling with ASD or other developmental issues that exacerbate certain behaviors. It’s not uncommon for me to receive a call about a teen who is inappropriately exploring sexual behavior with siblings, cousins, or friends.

Often, there has also been a history of trauma or abuse. Most actions are reactive or exploratory in nature. Most teens aren’t “criminals” in any way, shape, or form. They are simply trying to make sense of a society that does little to curb the promotion of early sexualization yet responds with heavy condemnation when social boundaries are disturbed.

For this reason, I have compiled a list of articles and posts from my blog that address the treatment and understanding of teens and families battling sexual trauma, abuse, and addiction. I hope you find this resource helpful.

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