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When Emotional Pain Looks Like Manipulation: Oxbow Academy

By Stephen C. Schultz The teenage years are often full of complexity—especially for young people who struggle with impulse control, social understanding, or emotional regulation in relation to Problematic Sexual Behavior (PSB). For some, this difficulty is compounded by co-occurring conditions like Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), ADHD, or Nonverbal Learning Disorder (NLD) . These teens may unintentionally find themselves caught in compulsive, confusing, or embarrassing situations—sometimes involving inappropriate behavior with siblings, neighbors and friends or accessing dark corners of the internet. As these patterns continue, parents are often left feeling overwhelmed, frightened, and unsure of what to do next. Some worry that law enforcement or government agencies might get involved. Others have already experienced the fear of having electronics confiscated or home environments scrutinized. In the midst of this chaos, many parents recognize that their child’s behavior isn’t just a...

Life, Love, and Lessons: 10 Stories That Stay With You

By Stephen C. Schultz Life has a way of teaching us through moments in time—some tender, some tough, and some that simply catch us off guard. On The Interpreted Rock , these moments come to life in the form of personal reflections, heartfelt tributes, and everyday stories that explore what it means to grow, connect, and overcome. Whether you're navigating personal trials or celebrating simple joys, these ten evergreen blog posts invite you to pause and reflect on the power of shared experience. From the poignant homage in "The One That Got Away" to the insight filled interactions of "Teen Party At The Beach," these articles balance grief with grace and joy with introspection. You'll find strength in stories like "When Seizures Strike," and inspiration in the compassionate lens of "Treat People Like They're Under Construction." Each piece, in its own way, reveals how adversity shapes us—and how kindness, faith, and perspective can ...

Treat People Like They’re Under Construction

By Stephen C. Schultz Five Ways to Support Others as They Grow I find it interesting that when someone is remodeling their home, visitors are very tolerant of improvements that are obviously underway. They understand that dust, mess, and exposed beams are part of the process. You might even hear comments like, “It’s going to be beautiful when it’s done!” or “I love seeing the progress!” Yet when someone is remodeling their character , we often don’t extend the same grace. Instead of supporting the process, we sometimes call attention to the “mess” in progress—or worse, we remind them of what their “house” used to look like, as if they’re not allowed to change the floorplan. But here’s the truth: our lives are all Design/Build projects. We learn as we go. We draft blueprints based on what we think will work, and then we tweak them in real time. There’s no perfect plan from the start—only vision, intention, and a whole lot of revision. So how do we show up for others in the middle of...