The Interpreted Rock

By Ryan C. Schultz It was my sophomore year and I was coming off a big decision to attend a new High School. I was feeling pretty content about my decision. I was fulfilling my dream; I made the high school baseball team and was playing my favorite sport. I had worked hard to get where I was and it took a lot of practice and not much else. I stayed busy and that’s how I liked it; a practical use of my time. I never had a down moment where I was bored and didn’t know what to do because I was always playing or practicing baseball, working hard on getting better. It was a lot of fun and I had a lot of good experiences from being on the team. I had made friends with those on my team, but most of them I had been friends with because we played on the same club baseball team for years. Throughout the baseball season I noticed that I was starting to act different from the way I wanted to be acting. I knew that the baseball team was having a bad influence on me, but I didn’t really car...

By Stephen C. Schultz This is a very interesting topic. I'm always amazed at the emotional extremes that people express as the topic of sex is discussed. Some say teenage sexual interests and experimentation are normal, while others decry it as "sin". As a father of four, three daughters and one son, I am very concerned about what they see and are exposed to on the web. There is no question that this life's journey brings with it inappropriate and often hurtful experiences. My responsibility as a parent is to love and care for my children, help them reach their god given potential, and assist them in navigating those rough waters they will inevitably face throughout their lives. This does not mean I don't protect them from experiences or images that may be inappropriate, however, I can not shelter them either. Within my work , I have had the unfortunate experience of assisting parents who have had their teenage sons involved in sexual misconduct of...

By Stephen C. Schultz I turned on the news and heard stories of a recent mall shooting in Oregon , sexual abuse involving a government official’s intern, companies going bankrupt, and families losing their jobs. There are parents separating, teens turning to drugs, and entire communities feeling “entitled” to a certain standard of living. On the surface, it can all seem pretty bleak. And yet, I also witness the “Good Samaritans” who quietly reach out to help others. I see food banks that somehow receive just enough turkeys at Thanksgiving. I hear about “Sub for Santa” and “Toys for Tots” campaigns that instill hope in families and protect the innocence and imagination of children. There is nothing quite like bringing a smile to a child’s face, it has a way of restoring hope in all of us. During this holiday season, I invite you to share examples of Christmas giving that have crossed barriers of language and economics to forever change the life of a little one. In a world ...

By Stephen C. Schultz I had the opportunity to spend some time this week with educational consultant David Altshuler, M.S. , in Miami, Florida. David graciously invited me and my colleague, Brent Hall, LMFT , to his home for lunch. It was a pleasure to reconnect. As our conversation unfolded, we found ourselves discussing family heritage and the stories that shape who we are. We talked about how experiences passed from one generation to the next create a deep sense of identity, belonging, and connection. These stories do more than preserve family history. They remind us where we came from, the values that have sustained our families, and the people whose sacrifices made our own lives possible. David shared the story of his grandmother, who, as a young teenager, worked outside the home as a secretary for just two dollars a day. Rather than keeping her earnings for herself, she willingly contributed them to help support her family. Her story spoke of humility, responsibility, and a qui...

By Graham Cook Chief Executive Off The Rails Kids Ltd Northumberland . UK. www.offtherailskids.com Mobile - +44 (0) 7872 665022 The following is a journal of my recent trip to the USA where I visited Wilderness Programmes and other Boarding School / Residential Treatment Centres in Southern Utah.   Saturday 10 th November – depart London Heathrow at lunchtime and arrive in LA late afternoon the same day.....transfer to Las Vegas arriving early evening for an overnight stay at the Luxor on The Strip. Sunday 11 th November – waken to a lovely warm Nevada sunny day, not knowing that my host (Steve Schultz from RedCliff ) had battled through a snow storm the previous afternoon and stayed nearby overnight so as to collect me and then to drive me back north up the I15! We travelled in bright sunshine up to St George where we had an early meal (avoiding the coach loads of New Zealand pensioners at the Marriott) and an early night to catch up on some much needed sleep....