By Stephen C. Schultz My youngest daughter, who is 11 years old, suffers from a seizure disorder. Despite extensive testing, we still don’t have a definitive diagnosis. Her neurologist has mentioned that she might grow out of the seizures as she goes through adolescence. However, she’s nearing adolescence now, and the seizures persist, even with medication. She doesn’t like having seizures, understandably, and sometimes struggles with anxiety because of them. The seizures are unpredictable and infrequent, which makes them all the more unsettling. As her father, it’s hard for me to imagine what she must go through, knowing a seizure could strike at any moment. While her medication helps, it does come with side effects. We try to ensure she has a fulfilling life—she plays softball and volleyball, took piano lessons, and recently started learning the guitar. As parents, we expect her to do well in school and strive to live life as a family as if everything is normal. But the concer...
Life presents us with experiences. We each interpret those experiences through the lens of our own history, relationships, struggles, and hopes. The same story can mean something entirely different to two different people, and that's not a flaw, it's part of being human.