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Prioritizing You: Essential Self-Care Tips for Parents with a Son at Oxbow Academy

 By Stephen C. Schultz


Supporting your teen at Oxbow Academy can be emotionally and mentally challenging for parents and family members. Here are five self-care tips to help navigate this time while staying healthy and grounded:

1. Prioritize Your Mental Health

Why it matters: Having a child at Oxbow Academy can stir feelings of guilt, sadness, anxiety, or even past trauma. Addressing your emotions is crucial for maintaining balance and providing stable support for your teen.
How to do it:

  • Consider individual or family therapy to process your emotions.
  • Join a support group for parents with children in treatment.
  • Practice mindfulness or meditation to stay present.

2. Educate Yourself About the Oxbow Academy Process

Why it matters: Understanding your teen’s treatment plan and Oxbow Academy’s structure reduces uncertainty and fosters a sense of control.
How to do it:

  • Stay in regular contact with the Oxbow therapist assigned to your family.
  • Request reading materials or resources to learn about treatment methods.
  • Attend scheduled parent workshops and family sessions.


3. Maintain Healthy Routines

Why it matters: Stress can disrupt normal habits, but routines help you stay grounded and capable.
How to do it:

  • Eat balanced meals, exercise, and ensure you get enough sleep.
  • Dedicate time to hobbies or activities you enjoy.
  • Keep a consistent schedule for work and family responsibilities.

4. Build a Strong Support Network

Why it matters: Leaning on others eases the emotional burden and offers valuable perspective.
How to do it:

  • Share updates with trusted friends or family who offer understanding and support.
  • Network with other parents at parent seminars.
  • Accept help when offered, whether emotional support or practical assistance.

5. Focus on Progress, Not Perfection

Why it matters: Healing is a journey with ups and downs. Acknowledging small wins and practicing patience is key.
How to do it:

  • Celebrate progress, even if it feels slow.
  • Let go of self-blame for past decisions or circumstances.
  • Practice self-compassion by reminding yourself that you’re doing your best in a tough situation.

Remember, prioritizing your well-being benefits both you and your teen during this challenging time. You can click on the following link for additional Self-Help resources.

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