Struggling Teen? What options do parents have?

By Stephen C. Schultz

"What can we do to intervene in the life of our struggling teen?"

I hear this comment regularly. The number of times I have had this conversation with a family just outside the emergency room of their local hospital is too high to count! Self-harm and suicide attempts are incredibly stressful for everyone involved. Often, these teens are struggling with drug use, running away, poor grades in school, or simply feeling disenfranchised with life in general. Deciding which therapeutic option is best for their child and family can be overwhelming.

With hundreds of therapeutic programs and services to choose from, parents often feel confused and uncertain about where to turn for help. Here is a good place to start.

Recognized as the foremost leader in Research-Informed Treatment, RedCliff Ascent is an Outdoor Behavioral Healthcare program that accepts students from across the globe. If sitting in a stuffy outpatient office hasn't worked well for your son or daughter, the fresh air, outdoor living, hiking, and therapy under a tree might just be the solution!

While it doesn't lessen the pain of dealing with a wayward son or daughter, it can be helpful to realize you are not alone. Be sure to check out the website here: www.redcliffascent.com

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